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ETIQUETTE, PLEASE!

12/12/2012

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Okay, here is a word-association test: What country comes to mind when you hear the word “manners”?  I’m willing to bet a winning Lottery ticket that it wasn’t “United States,” and I strongly suspect…without going too far out on a limb here…that it was “Britain.”  Perhaps your mental image included a monocled gentleman with a walking stick, tipping his bowler to a lady.  (Though in all fairness, I know that today many Brits lament the decline of manners on that side of the pond too.)  Even so, I think the British pride themselves on manners more than Americans do because manners are part of Britain’s national identity.  Just as “rugged individualism” is a strong component of national identity in the States, reserved, proper conduct is a strong component in Britain. 

I, for one, would like to see nice manners find their way back into our lives on both sides of the Atlantic.  (Well, actually, across the globe, right?)  Rules of etiquette exist, after all, so that we can show respect and courtesy to our fellow human beings.  And really, in this day and age, when one wonders if manners are taught in the home at all, having lovely manners sets one apart from the crowd in a most positive way—particularly when mannerly conduct comes naturally, rather than forced, as though being trotted out for a special occasion.  How do manner come naturally?  Though constant practice, of course!  Especially in one’s home. 

Regardless of where we live, I’m sure we've all witnessed bad manners that have made our faces curl in disgust.  And our own behavior…ahem…is always exemplary, right?  (Okay, okay, dear Anglophiles!  I promise to start putting up my cell phone at the dinner table, and to never again practice origami with my dinner napkin, despite my obvious talent for doing so....)  My pet peeves include seeing someone push food onto their fork with their fingers at the dinner table.  People elbowing others as they pass on a busy street--or crowding elderly pedestrians who walk slowly.  And, of course, people who stop in the middle of a busy sidewalk and text cell-phone messages.  (Frankly, I've been guilty of this far too often, but I'm striving to improve.)  On subway cars here in New York, I've even seen people pick their nose and cut their fingernails and toenails!  Oy!  

A young British gentleman involved in etiquette education, Mr. William Hanson, has recently come to my attention.  He’s charming, with a gift for being authoritative, yet good-natured and amusing.  Regarded as one of the world’s youngest etiquette experts, he’s cropping up on television, radio, magazine pages, and the public speaking circuit, dishing advice on general rules of etiquette, royal protocol, and conduct in our modern, technology-driven world, where rules of behavior with cell phones, emails, and other technologies are brand new.  (His website even offers “etiquette apps” for iPhones and iPads, one of which is a free download.)

Mr. Hanson also teaches etiquette at The English Manner, a British-based company with locations in London, Toronto, and New York, which offers etiquette classes to individuals and corporate groups, as well as teaching “household arts” to aspiring nannies, au pairs, and valets at its Household Academy.  (After training at the Academy, one may land a gig with the rich and famous, anywhere in the world, as the Academy’s confidential client list is, supposedly, VIP laden.)

Below are several videos featuring Mr. Hanson

William Hanson on TV: Let’s Do Lunch with Gino & Mel


William Hanson being quite witty on TV

William Hanson: British vs American Table Manners
  • To visit William Hanson’s website, click HERE  
  • To visit William Hanson’s etiquette blog, click HERE   
  • To peruse William Hanson’s “etiquette apps,” click HERE 
  • To visit The English Manner website, click HERE 

AMERICAN-STYLE  ETIQUETTE
Rules of etiquette in Britain and America differ little.  Most notable is the fact that we Americans hold our knife and fork differently and that the British recognize royal protocol when dealing with the Royals.  I offer several videos below featuring American etiquette expert Nancy Mitchell, based in Washington D.C.  Ms. Mitchell owns The Etiquette Advocate, a firm teaching etiquette and protocol to government agencies, embassies, universities, etc., as well as to individuals.  In these videos, Ms. Mitchell addresses standard table etiquette, but you can find additional videos of her expounding on finer points, such as proper use of finger bowls and napkins.

Nancy Mitchell: Basic Dining Etiquette: Table Taboos

Nancy Mitchell: Basic Dining Etiquette - Using Utensils

Visit Nancy Mitchell's The Etiquette Advocate website, click HERE

OTHER INTERESTING VIDEOS....

If you're lucky enough to land a job in the UK, you may appreciate this video, Working with the British

Etiquette training needn't be didactic; indeed, learning the ropes can be quite humorous as the video below about "pavement etiquette" illustrates

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Maria link
8/22/2012 10:39:14 am

Thank you for your post. I found it very interesting. Might I suggest that etiquette should continue at football games, too?? Just a thought.

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Zella link
10/5/2012 05:31:51 am

Absolutely, Maria! I've read about the rowdy football games in the UK, though I've never attended one. (We have our own rowdy football games in the US, just the *other* kind of football!) Indeed, no area of life should be untouched by nice manners....

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